i would say to be the one inflicting it is exciting in a different way because your the king . you own it. but that is only for ego driven douchebags that are self centered and only care about another notch on the belt. the challenge . once the challenge is over they look for new prey until someone stops them
Interesting so do you mean ego driven douchebags in real life and those who play the games that way?
So I guess the Millon dollar question is what do you get from seeing someone else in pain as a third party , like what draws you in about it , is it like a power by proxy sort of thing?
Like I could see the appeal to people that have been victims of NTR themselves enjoying witnessing someone else in pain as it's not then this time it's like a release or a relief to them almost like aww thank god it's not me sort of thing
So for context il elaborate when I tend to gravitate to the husband/partner that's the victim and honestly it's really pretty simple I've always been a sucker for an underdog , be it films , TV shows ,sport , games you name it I part of me can't help but wanna root for the underdog
Like I don't project myself into the position of the character or anything like that , as it does absolutely nothing for me I tend to view it almost like it's David Vs Goliath haha